The Husband Who Was Too Shy To Look At His Wife
....So I said to him: “And the likes of her truly deserve that from you.”....
This story was recounted by Prof. Khalid Al-Jubeir, consulting cardiovascular surgeon, in one of his lectures:
Once I operated on a two and a half
year old child. It was Tuesday, and on Wednesday the child was in good
health. On Thursday at 11:15 am – and I’ll never forget the time because
of the shock I experienced – one of the nurses
informed me that the heart and breathing of the child had stopped. I
hurried to the child and performed cardiac massage for 45 minutes and
during that entire time the heart would not work.
Then, ALLAH decreed for the heart to
resume function and we thanked HIM. I went to inform the child’s family
about his condition. As you know, it is very difficult to inform the
patient’s family about his condition when it’s
bad. This is one of the most difficult situations a
doctor is subjected
to but it is necessary. So I looked for the child’s father whom I
couldn’t find. Then I found his mother. I told her that the child’s
cardiac arrest was due to bleeding in his throat;
we don’t know the cause of this bleeding and fear that his brain is
dead. So how do you think she responded? Did she cry? Did she blame me?
No, nothing of the sort. Instead, she said “Alhamdulillah” (All Praise
is due to ALLAH) and left me.
After 10 days, the child started
moving. We thanked ALLAH and were happy that his brain condition was
reasonable. After 12 days, the heart stopped again because of the same
bleeding. We performed another cardiac massage for
45 minutes but this time his heart didn’t respond. I told his mother
that there was no hope. So she said: “Alhamdulillah. O ALLAH, if there
is good in his recovery, then cure him, O my Lord.”
With the grace of ALLAH, his heart
started functioning again. He suffered six similar cardiac arrests till a
trachea specialist was able to stop the bleeding and the heart started
working properly. Now, three and a half months
had passed and the child was recovering but did not move. Then just as
he started moving, he was afflicted with a very large and strange
pus-filled abscess in his head, the likes of which I had never seen. I
informed his mother of the serious development.
She said “Alhamdulillah” and left me.
We immediately turned him over to the
surgical unit that deals with the brain and nervous system and they took
over his treatment. Three weeks later, the boy recovered from this
abscess but was still not moving. Two weeks pass
and he suffers from a strange blood poisoning and his temperature
reaches 41.2°C (106°F). I again informed his mother of the serious
development and she said with patience and certainty: “Alhamdulillah. O
ALLAH, if there is good in his recovery, then cure
him.”
After seeing his mother who was with
her child at Bed#5, I went to see another child at Bed#6. I found that
child’s mother crying and screaming, “Doctor! Doctor! Do something! The
boy’s temperature reached 37.6°C (99.68°F)!
He’s going to die! He’s going to die!” I said with surprise, “Look at
the mother of that child in Bed#5. Her child’s fever is over 41°C
(106°F), yet she is patient and praises ALLAH.” So she replied: “That
woman isn’t conscious and has no senses”. At that
point, I remembered the great Hadith of the Prophet (Sallallaahu Alaihi
Wa Sallam): “Blessed are the strangers.” Just two words… but indeed two
words that shake a nation! In 23 years of hospital service, I have
never seen the likes of this patient sister.
We continued to care for him. Now, six
and a half months have passed and the boy finally came out of the
recovery unit – not talking, not seeing, not hearing, not moving, not
smiling, and with an open chest in which you can
see his beating heart. The mother changed the dressing regularly and
remained patient and hopeful. Do you know what happened after that?
Before I inform you, what do you think are the prospects of a child who
has passed through all these dangers, agonies,
and diseases? And what do you expect this patient mother to do whose
child is at the brink of the grave and who is unable to do anything
except supplicate and beseech ALLAH? Do you know what happened two and a
half months later? The boy was completely cured
by the mercy of ALLAH and as a reward for this pious mother. He now
races his mother with his feet as if nothing happened and he became
sound and healthy as he was before.
The story doesn’t end here. This is
not what moved me and brought tears to my eyes. What filled my eyes with
tears is what follows:
One and a half years after the child
left the hospital, one of the brothers from the Operations Unit informed
me that a man, his wife and two children wanted to see me. I asked who
they were and he replied that he didn’t know
them. So I went to see them, and I found the parents of the same child
whom I operated upon. He was now five years old and like a flower in
good health – as if nothing happened to him. With them also was a
four-month old newborn. I welcomed them kindly and
then jokingly asked the father whether the newborn was the 13th or 14th
child. He looked at me with an astonishing smile as if he pitied me. He
then said, “This is the second child, and the child upon whom you
operated is our first born, bestowed upon us after
17 years of infertility. And after being granted that child, he was
afflicted with the conditions that you’ve seen.”
At hearing this, I couldn’t control
myself and my eyes filled with tears. I then involuntarily grabbed the
man by the arm, and pulling him to my room, asked him about his wife:
“Who is this wife of yours who after 17 years
of infertility has this much patience with all the fatal conditions
that afflict her first born?! Her heart cannot be barren! It must be
fertile with Imaan!”Do you know what he said? Listen carefully my dear
brothers and sisters. He said, “I was married to
this woman for 19 years and for all these years she has never missed
the night prayers except due to an authorized excuse. I have never
witnessed her backbiting, gossiping, or lying. Whenever I leave home or
return, she opens the door, supplicates for me,
and receives me hospitably. And in everything she does, she
demonstrates the utmost love, care, courtesy, and compassion.” The man
completed by saying, “Indeed, doctor, because of all the noble manners
and affection with which she treats me, I’m shy to lift
up my eyes and look at her. So I said to him: “And the likes of her
truly deserve that from you.”
The End…
ALLAH says: And We will
surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth
and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient; Who, when
calamity strikes them, say, “Indeed we belong
to ALLAH, and indeed to HIM we will return.” Those are the ones upon
whom are blessings from their Lord and mercy. And it is those who are
the guided. (Surah Al-Baqarah 155-157)
Umm Salamah (the wife of the Prophet) said: I heard the Messenger of ALLAH (Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) saying:
“There is no Muslim who
is stricken by a calamity and says what ALLAH has commanded him –
‘Indeed we belong to ALLAH, and indeed to Him we will return; O ALLAH,
reward me for my affliction and compensate me with
that which is better’ – except that ALLAH will grant him something
better in exchange.” When Abu
Salamah passed away, I said to myself: “What Muslim is better than Abu
Salamah?” I then said the words, and ALLAH gave me
the Messenger of ALLAH (Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) in exchange.
(Sahih Muslim Sharief)
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